why in the hell I'm always talking about marriages?
it's because the topic is the hottest this year!!!
and I truly am happy for them!
ngeeee~
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| Tears of joy seeing happy married couple's ;) |
To those you are getting married and already married, congratz is not enough for you...semoga bahagia ke anak cucu!!! hahaha~
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But the issue that what i want to point out is that why certain people have already plan to get married late?
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| why? i just dont get it...are you planning or delaying? could it work? |
I mean, no offense, but why the delay? I dont get it especially if that person has known each other for more than 3 years, how long would you need to get to know each other? Yes, true, it all depends on how certain you feel of each other, some people only need a week, while others that I know can take up to 8 years, but still they didnt completely say ' we want to get married late' just like that. They plan off their life together and whats more,if your muslim, its not very nice to stay that long with each other especially when people already know you guys are all lovey dovey inside, have no solid reasons to delay, and most likely if you say you dont like having a long distance relationship, why? how would you know if you wait that long, in future you'll be that far apart again? isnt it best you deal whatever problems you have now then later?
Today, I got a call from my mother talking about these things; she told me that Michelle Obama recently went a visit in UK and went to an all girls school nearby. A student asked her ' How to know you found the right person to get marry?' and she said ' Do not bring people in your life that brings you down'..Truest words my dear First Lady...lets just say I've been there,done that..when you realize you keep defending a person, even for the smallest reasons..and whats worst is when they dont appreciate and respect you...that is the time you have to look back and look forward to the future...if your like this with him only for for a few years? would you be able to cope for the next 10 years? ..
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| Love,support,loyalty,respect with each other...*so romantic! |
Marriage is the sweetest thing that could happen to a human being, its true that marriage is not easy...a single person saying getting married is easy? stop ! stop ! stop! your not ready yet! why? because your head is still in the clouds! Remember, marriage is not something you can break off easily, it involves family,family,society and the most important, your heart...and if you have children, if would be a lot worst especially when you dont have a clean break up..so dont fool yourslef by telling ' He's the one!' or 'She's the one for me!' when the obvious things like appreciating is not on the top list of his good criteria. Trust me, if they can appreciate the smallest things, what more of the big things?
I'm not trying to be evil, I'm trying to be realistic..if you are having ths uncertain feeling when your already been long enough with them, i suggest you ask yourself why and keep asking all the questions that are important for your future..its your life too and for these kinds of things, DONT DEFEND THEM,DONT MAKE EXCUSES JUST DONT!!!..i know defending can be a bad habit but bad habits can die easy when your certain you know what you want in life..what matters here is that YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT or ARE THEY WORTH IT?...and if you found a conclusion, dont be afraid to be alone and dont you care what other people will say..People will talk about it but you''ll realize its not their opinion that matters. If you have any doubt and cant make a decision, you can always pray,pray and pray..:)
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| Damn TRUE sista! |
My dearast lovely friends,
It is in my sincere heart that I want you to make the right choices and be happy with your life. True I'm no perfect person, I have my ultimate flaws and believe me or not, even if you dont like me, I still try my best to think the best of you :)..But believe me, I know how it feels and seen what it could do to you if your not happy with your life...one word : TIRING...could you cope with this negative word troughout your life?
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| No Nope No Sirree! No extra baggage please! |
All in all, I wish you the best of the best...finding the one is never easy but you always learn something along the way.. the kind of person that you want, your vision in life, things that make you smile and happy, what makes you hurt,sad,angry..all these are important and you really need someone that understand you at your worst to be there and deserve you enough to be at your best..
My wishes for you,
My wishes for me
Hope to have that happy ending untill akhirat...
InsyAllah~
p.s: Selalulah bersederhana dalam kehidupan kerana segala apa dalam dunia ini milik Allah. Anytime boleh tarik pada masa yg tak disangka2. :)
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