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| fake heart,har har har... |
Uffffffhhhh!!!!
My heart is aching MAD!!!!!!
Stop it stop it stop it!!!!
Adededeyh~~~
hohohoho...
or maybe i'm feeling too excited to go to my friends wedding?
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| kawaii kan? |
weeee~ i cant wait! the first friend wedding i attended was so sweet i cried, now theres around 5 weddings to look forward to and i cant wait! i do admit that i feel the pressure but i take it in a positive way...many things in life are far more important right now and i have to give my fullest focus and attention
its so nice to get married...seeing people getting married or in love kinda makes me happy....it so sweeet~~~ especially the when its an old couple and their holding hands in public...>_<...and i do respect couples that kept their relationship in private without telling the whole world what they do in relationships...the more private the better...because it is a shame when things go wrong and your telling eveyone how shitty your partner is when some people dont have any to begin with....just my thoughts..
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| awak,saya sukala payung merah ni..peluk2~ |
its good to have experience but its wise to not make stupid mistakes...i know most couples want their relationship to last but if it doesnt than its not a big deal..life goes on ahead and looking back you know its a good experience for you to take and tell your children or friends whats worth in a relationship...
i remember what the ustaz said whe i went to the kursus pra-perkahwinan,some tips i would like to share;
1) make sure the man you choose to marry does his prayers.
example: your going out on a date, and he reminded you about solah. I have guy friends who in front of girls they do their prayers,but around boys they dont even go to Jummat prayers.yes, i know some will defend its normal but think about it, if right now they think its a small matter what about 10 years ahead? there are so many elder people ive seen that doesnt take this seriously so girls..you have to firm in this part. If before you had a relationship with a guy and youve seen him going to the surau or masjid alone, your the luckiest girl in the world.
2) know his vision in life
example: he knows what dream job and what kind of family he wants. This is important so he would have a focus in life rather than slandering around and think life is a joke. True, most guys are not serious about life yet but they should know, a relationship is something serious and not to be played with. We live in this world to be better and if your guys is still messing around in the most important thing in life, well, just give him a bitch slap!
3) know his family background
this is a serious issue. the relationship between you partner and his family is what determine who you are to him. some cases you will like the guy but you dont like he's family. well even if you dont like them,try. they are his whole world and your his second best. family first girls,remember that.
well to know more its better if you go to the kursus kahwin yourself, there's a lot to learn and you'll know how serious you are with a person once you hear the details.some are also gruelling but they are the truth.I'm glad i did, i know straight away what to look for in a man that i could call a husband someday.=)
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| hati gula-gula |
anyways, heres some advice from my mother about relationships, very original;
1) get to know a boy more than 6 months, most true colours show after that duration
2) have your own say too, jangan asek mengalah je
3) be firm yet soft
4) dont let him treat you like a fool
5) if a guy loves you, let him love you more than you love him
6) if a guy ask you about sex,leave him
7) appreciate him for wat he did, dont find fault in anything he didnt do
maybe most moms say the same thing but well, its good to share because my mom have the experience that i bet most mom dont.
so girls
for you and me
i hope we can live happily ever after with the man we love and cherish
>_<
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