My Dear Ninja

Yea..hari ini merupakan hari ke-3 saya terserempak dgn Kawasaki Ninja ZX-10R...

ada tahu moto ini?

ada pernah tgk?

nah!

tengaok dan nilai sendiri!

ok,

satu gambar je da cukup,

kalo nk tgk lagi sila google

hahahahaha~

aduhai bestnya kalo dapat bawak..

tapi lagi best kalo husband yg bawak...

sebab....


sebab....................


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bley PELUK!!!!


wawawa~

Marry You~

Yess..I think I know what your thinking..
why in the hell I'm always talking about marriages?
it's because the topic is the hottest this year!!!
and I truly am happy for them!
ngeeee~

Tears of joy seeing happy married couple's ;)

To those you are getting married and already married, congratz is not enough for you...semoga bahagia ke anak cucu!!! hahaha~

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But the issue that what i want to point out is that why certain people have already plan to get married late?

why? i just dont get it...are you planning or delaying? could it work?

I mean, no offense, but why the delay? I dont get it especially if that person has known each other for more than 3 years, how long would you need to get to know each other? Yes, true, it all depends on how certain you feel of each other, some people only need a week, while others that I know can take up to 8 years, but still they didnt completely say ' we want to get married late' just like that. They plan off their life together and whats more,if your muslim, its not very nice to stay that long with each other especially when people already know you guys are all lovey dovey inside, have no solid reasons to delay, and most likely if you say you dont like having a long distance relationship, why? how would you know if you wait that long, in future you'll be that far apart again? isnt it best you deal whatever problems you have now then later?

Today, I got a call from my mother talking about these things; she told me that Michelle Obama recently went a visit in UK and went to an all girls school nearby. A student asked her ' How to know you found the right person to get marry?' and she said ' Do not bring people in your life that brings you down'..Truest words my dear First Lady...lets just say I've been there,done that..when you realize you keep defending a person, even for the smallest reasons..and whats worst is when they dont appreciate and respect you...that is the time you have to look back and look forward to the future...if your like this with him only for for a few years? would you be able to cope for the next 10 years? ..

Love,support,loyalty,respect with each other...*so romantic!

Marriage is the sweetest thing that could happen to a human being, its true that marriage is not easy...a single person saying getting married is easy? stop ! stop ! stop! your not ready yet! why? because your head is still in the clouds! Remember, marriage is not something you can break off easily, it involves family,family,society and the most important, your heart...and if you have children, if would be a lot worst especially when you dont have a clean break up..so dont fool yourslef by telling ' He's the one!' or 'She's the one for me!' when the obvious things like appreciating is not on the top list of his good criteria. Trust me, if they can appreciate the smallest things, what more of the big things?

I'm not trying to be evil, I'm trying to be realistic..if you are having ths uncertain feeling when your already been long enough with them, i suggest you ask yourself why and keep asking all the questions that are important for your future..its your life too and for these kinds of things, DONT DEFEND THEM,DONT MAKE EXCUSES JUST DONT!!!..i know defending can be a bad habit but bad habits can die easy when your certain you know what you want in life..what matters here is that YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT or ARE THEY WORTH IT?...and if you found a conclusion, dont be afraid to be alone and dont you care what other people will say..People will talk about it but you''ll realize its not their opinion that matters. If you have any doubt and cant make a decision, you can always pray,pray and pray..:)

Damn TRUE sista!

My dearast lovely friends,

It is in my sincere heart that I want you to make the right choices and be happy with your life. True I'm no perfect person, I have my ultimate flaws and believe me or not, even if you dont like me, I still try my best to think the best of you :)..But believe me, I know how it feels and seen what it could do to you if your not happy with your life...one word : TIRING...could you cope with this negative word troughout your life?

No Nope No Sirree! No extra baggage please!

All in all, I wish you the best of the best...finding the one is never easy but you always learn something along the way.. the kind of person that you want, your vision in life, things that make you smile and happy, what makes you hurt,sad,angry..all these are important and you really need someone that understand you at your worst to be there and deserve you enough to be at your best..

My wishes for you,
My wishes for me

Hope to have that happy ending untill akhirat...

InsyAllah~

p.s: Selalulah bersederhana dalam kehidupan kerana segala apa dalam dunia ini milik Allah. Anytime boleh tarik pada masa yg tak disangka2. :)

Marry Me~

Its a beatiful night~
Were looking something dumb to do...
Hey baby~
I think I wanna marry you~~

>_<

just say I do~~~

wedding fever!!!!















alamak,da gila

Klik klok klik klok pow!!!!

fake heart,har har har...

Uffffffhhhh!!!!

My heart is aching MAD!!!!!!

Stop it stop it stop it!!!!

Adededeyh~~~

Right now I'm always feeling tight around the chest...i suspect of stress but for what? right now i think whats happening is kinda normal for me but lately my outburst and thoughts are always towards the negative...have i've reached my limit?

hohohoho...

or maybe i'm feeling too excited to go to my friends wedding?

kawaii kan?

weeee~ i cant wait! the first friend wedding i attended was so sweet i cried, now theres around 5 weddings to look forward to and i cant wait! i do admit that i feel the pressure but i take it in a positive way...many things in life are far more important right now and i have to give my fullest focus and attention..i cant mess up again...

its so nice to get married...seeing people getting married or in love kinda makes me happy....it so sweeet~~~ especially the when its an old couple and their holding hands in public...>_<...and i do respect couples that kept their relationship in private without telling the whole world what they do in relationships...the more private the better...because it is a shame when things go wrong and your telling eveyone how shitty your partner is when some people dont have any to begin with....just my thoughts..

awak,saya sukala payung merah ni..peluk2~

its good to have experience but its wise to not make stupid mistakes...i know most couples want their relationship to last but if it doesnt than its not a big deal..life goes on ahead and looking back you know its a good experience for you to take and tell your children or friends whats worth in a relationship...

i remember what the ustaz said whe i went to the kursus pra-perkahwinan,some tips i would like to share;

1) make sure the man you choose to marry does his prayers.
example: your going out on  a date, and he reminded you about solah. I have guy friends who in front of girls they do their prayers,but around boys they dont even go to Jummat prayers.yes, i know some will defend its normal but think about it, if right now they think its a small matter what about 10 years ahead? there are so many elder people ive seen that doesnt take this seriously so girls..you have to firm in this part. If before you had a relationship with a guy and youve seen him going to the surau or  masjid alone, your the luckiest girl in the world.

2) know his vision in life
example: he knows what dream job and what kind of family he wants. This is important so he would have a focus in life rather than slandering around and think life is a joke. True, most guys are not serious about life yet but they should know, a relationship is something serious and not to be played with.  We live in this world to be better and if your guys is still messing around in the most important thing in life, well, just give him a bitch slap!

3) know his family background
this is a serious issue. the relationship between you partner and his family is what determine who you are to him. some cases you will like the guy but you dont like he's family. well even if you dont like them,try. they are his whole world and your his second best. family first girls,remember that.

well to know more its better if you go to the kursus kahwin yourself, there's a lot to learn and you'll know how serious you are with a person once you hear the details.some are also gruelling but they are the truth.I'm glad i did, i know straight away what to look for in a man that i could call a husband someday.=)

hati gula-gula

anyways, heres some advice from my mother about relationships, very original;

1) get to know a boy more than 6 months, most true colours show after that duration
2) have your own say too, jangan asek mengalah je
3) be firm yet soft
4) dont let him treat you like a fool
5) if a guy loves you, let him love you more than you love him
6) if a guy ask you about sex,leave him
7) appreciate him for wat he did, dont find fault in anything he didnt do

maybe most moms say the same thing but well, its good to share because my mom have the experience that i bet most mom dont.

so girls

for you and me

i hope we can live happily ever after with the man we love and cherish

>_<

Who do you think you are?

It just so happen I've received great news!
but somehow some bad news came along

so right now im really in between....

huhuhu

i really hope all these will be easy in the end....

somehow some people you know in life will act so out of character that all you can do is shut it....i do admit its frustrating but well,for now i am still hanging on doing whats the right thing to do because even if some good thing when not done in the right way wont give you the result you wanted right?

right now my heart is reaching out so far i just wish i could stop but i cant! owh dear, i just have to wait untill my period ends than i can make the right decisions...lately i've been getting wild ideas inside my head and i just have to stop thinking because all of it is nonsense!

but it get frustrating really, when you try so hard to be invincible but inside,its eating you up inside...you always question yourself when you come to this phase of life...thats why for me the best way was to look forward and believe I can do it, even if it means it's hurting me too....I know God has His reasons for letting me endure such termendous journey, and i can endure it i know....just take a deep breath and all is well i guess...

my dearest friends,

if your reading this,

always believe in yourself because trust is not a small matter,
you and you alone will know people you can count on and depend,
never tell yourself your less than any other or more, just tell youself we're all the same because in the end its true,
some people may have it easy in their life, but that doesnt make us any lesser...

if you trust and believe in yourself,
i assure you'll be larger than life even if you dont have much,
its not important what poeple do to you,its what you do to people always affects you even if your not feeling it,
you ca be born a prince, the smartest in class but its the choices you make that always determines who you are..

i have to look positive in this turn of events,
i know in my heart its for the best of me...
but i really hope my experience will be a inspiration for you,

its good for you to tell your loved ones that you love them,

but dont forget to tell yourself

I LOVE YOU~~

because nobody deserves it more than you!

live your life and ask yourslef how.
do it your way the right way.

Counting days till I meet you

To my dearest...

Its been a pleasure knowing you....

Counting days~~~

muah3~

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