Considerate

Definition of considerate:

1. Careful not to cause inconvenience or hurt to others
2. Showing careful thought

The insight right now is that most people that I've met trough my life, most of them don't know how to be considerate. Some action's that to me can be define by being unconsiderate are;

1. Not taking responsibility
2. Not attune to other people's sensitivity
3. Carelessness
4. Selfishness
5. Being too self centered

I know most of them have nearly the same value, but if you've encountered these actions, you'll know they have a slight difference.

I'm really tired seeing all these negative traits. Especially if it happens to be done by people that should be older and wiser. It's so annoying when they complain all the time and does nothing about it and expect life will go and follow their way... if only I could roll my eyes!

malas nak membebel...tapi......

Come on people, sometimes you have to accept life...and life is NOT

 ' why is this happening to me? '

 or

 'why is life so cruel to me?'

 or the usual

 ' why can't they understand me?'


B0o0o0ooh0o0oo0o...as if your the center of the universe..

well....





YOUR NOT!



always learn to BE INDEPENDANT, trust me, its the most fullfulling thing that could happen in your dull little life..when you start doing things with your own effort, you'll know how to appreciate what life is all about...

yup, it will be hard...but I'm just being realistic...life is never easy

if you get jealous that certain people got things in their own way, trust me...it wont be long when they realize their life is that dull..


so why being inconsiderate is your choice to make your life easier?
do you feel content with what you did?
do you feel a little ignorance at the back of your head?


yess...that a good sign actually...it's called conscious...the feeling you know its wrong but your doing it anyway.. and thats the thing that differ us to animals..akal..

life can be simple, which one golden rule is;

-Dont do to people what you dont want people do to you-

People always forget this,or maybe they are just having the time of their life hurting others,too self absorb to be considerate they forget the importance of it..



Sure......................


Right now you might think it wont affect you, but trust me, these kinds of things,
As you'll get older






It will haunt you...










So, do try to be considerate




not everything is about you
try to ask yourself why all this unfortunate events are happening instead (muhasabah)
ask a trusted friend what your flaws are so you can change for the betterment


give yourself a chance
because who knows
 people might give a chance to you too


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